Every Day Italian

I knew that looking back and all the times I had cried would one day make me laugh. What I didn't realize, was that looking back on all the times I laughed would one day make me cry.

Wednesday, August 17, 2005

Some people grow up, some just grow

The topic for the day was going to be about my newest project, the Heart Walk, but I will postpone that for another time.
By request, the topic is old boyfriends. Not really a subject anyone wants to talk about, in fact most people avoid. In fact, it really isn't a subject that I care to reflect on for too long. Not to worry you won't have to listen to stories or any other male bashing.

So, a relationships ends. The words, "let's keep in touch" or the dreaded "let's be friends" talk ends what you vested time and energy into. Let's be honest, you can't be friends or anything else for that matter.
Then, one day, out of the blue, you hear from said "friend". It is strange that although you have closure (or so you thought) feelings seem to spring forth. Unwanted feelings of anger, confusion, and (dare I say it) jealousy. The trouble is, once these thoughts start so do all the memories, which can be the worst possible thing. During this reflection it is funny how you can only recall the good times. But let's not forget the reason that they represent your past, not present.

I'm sure everyone has their story to tell, each one to top the one before. These are learning experiences (I think).

Moving on, growing up...it is a good thing. (#17 it is okay if you to wish birds to poop on his car everyday for the next year...) Some people grow up, some just grow.

Stay tuned for info on the Heart Walk happening Sept. 24.

1 Comments:

At 12:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

And sometimes they email you just "out of the blue" twice in one of the most inopprotune weeks of your summer! Hmmm...but then a good nights sleep and realization that you can make it without them makes you come to the conclusion that there are other, less slimy, and cuter fish in the sea! Yeah for other fish!

 

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